In this bonus episode of Poly Pathways, hosts Kat and man! (expert guest) openly discuss the challenge of maintaining personal identity while navigating motherhood. Kat shares relatable, humorous stories about feeling overwhelmed by mom-focused conversations that leave little room for other interests. Together, they explore how being labeled solely as a "mom" can overshadow one's true self.The conversation also touches on parallels between motherhood and polyamory, highlighting how labels can limit how others see us. If you've ever felt confined by societal roles, this episode offers refreshing insight and reassurance that you're not alone.About Poly Pathways PodcastHosts: Kat and Doc (and occasionally man!)Website: polypathwayspodcast.transistor.fmYouTube: @polypathwayspodcastInstagram: @polypathwayspodcastTikTok: @polypathwayspodcast

💥 Conflict happens—especially in polyamory! In this jam-packed episode of Poly Pathways, Kat is joined by certified polyamory relationship coach man! to unpack the mess, magic, and meaning behind conflict in non-monogamous relationships. From anxious attachment spirals to passive-aggressive rules masquerading as boundaries, we dive deep into the reasons conflict erupts and how self-awareness, nuance, and genuine communication can stop it from burning everything down.✨ We don’t just talk about why conflict happens—we talk about what to do when it does. You'll hear practical, real-life strategies for navigating blowups, asking for timeouts, and reconnecting with intention. Learn how to repair with care, move toward resolution, and recover with rituals (yes, even the silly ones count). And when the drama hits Jenga-level collapse? We’ll help you figure out how to rebuild stronger than before.🧠 Whether you're a hinge, a meta, or someone caught in the emotional crossfire, you’ll walk away with tangible tools and inspiration to turn those explosive moments into opportunities for growth. Don’t miss this one—it’s real, it’s raw, and it’s full of heart. Subscribe, share, and let’s normalize the hard conversations in polyamory!🧰 Resources Mentioned (affiliate links)Drink Element (LMNT) – Electrolyte drink for staying hydratedMotion – AI-powered calendar and task managerPoly-Friendly Therapist DirectoryNational Coalition for Sexual Freedom’s DirectoryPsychology Today Therapist FinderMultiamory Podcast’s RADAR Check-in FrameworkRelationship Anarchy Smorgasbord & ChecklistRemodeled Love🛎 Like this episode? Hit subscribe, share with your polycule, and leave us a review—your support helps us bring more real talk to the poly community!

Navigating the workplace as a polyamorous professional comes with unique challenges and opportunities. In this episode of Poly Pathways, we dive into the balancing act of being authentic while protecting your career. From watercooler conversations to HR policies, we explore the risks of being out at work, the potential rewards of building a supportive community, and the hidden biases that might shape your professional trajectory. Whether you’re debating whether to disclose your relationship structure or figuring out how your career shifts impact your partners, this conversation will help you make informed decisions.But it’s not just about workplace culture—we also explore the ripple effects career moves have on home life. When job changes, relocations, or promotions shake up your routine, how do you ensure all partners feel considered and valued? With personal stories, research-backed insights, and real-world strategies, this episode sheds light on the intersections of polyamory and professional ambition. Is your polycule prepared for the unexpected turns of career growth?If you’ve ever wondered how being polyamorous might impact your career—or how your career might impact your relationships—this episode has answers. Join Kat for a candid discussion that blends practical advice with personal experience, helping you create a workplace strategy that aligns with your values and goals.About Poly Pathways PodcastHosts: Kat and DocWebsite: polypathwayspodcast.transistor.fmYouTube: @polypathwayspodcastInstagram: @polypathwayspodcastTikTok: @polypathwayspodcastResources (affiliate links)• Magic AI – Virtual assistance service to help with daily life (Referral link in the show notes)Questions This Episode Answers:• How does being polyamorous affect your career opportunities and work relationships?• What are the risks and rewards of being out as polyamorous at work?• How can you navigate workplace conversations about relationships while maintaining privacy?• What industries and work environments are more accepting of non-traditional relationships?• How do career changes impact polyamorous relationships and family dynamics?• What are strategies for discussing major job shifts with your polycule?• How can polyamorous professionals advocate for inclusivity in the workplace?

Feeling overwhelmed by the sheer emotional and logistical weight of polyamory? You’re not alone. In this episode of Poly Pathways, Kat and Doc dive deep into the concept of saturation—that moment when you realize you’re stretched too thin across relationships, responsibilities, and personal well-being. They explore the warning signs of saturation, from exhaustion and disconnection to resentment and burnout, and share their own experiences of navigating this crucial aspect of polyamorous life. If you’ve ever struggled with balancing love, logistics, and self-care, this conversation is for you.But identifying saturation is only half the battle—what do you do once you’re there? Kat and Doc break down strategies for managing saturation with existing partners, setting realistic expectations with new connections, and ensuring that you’re maintaining quality over quantity in your relationships. From check-in strategies and boundary setting to the importance of prioritizing friendships and self-care, they offer actionable advice for keeping your relationships fulfilling and sustainable. And yes, they remind us that even polyamorous folks need alone time—because you can’t pour from an empty cup.This episode is packed with insights on communicating your limits, creating a supportive environment for communication, recognizing when external pressures (work, family, mental health) affect your capacity, and building a polyamorous lifestyle that works for you. Plus, they touch on the underrated value of friendships, the pitfalls of overpromising to new partners, and how to embrace the natural ebb and flow of emotional bandwidth. If you’re juggling multiple partners, a career, and a busy life, you won’t want to miss this episode. Tune in, take notes, and give yourself permission to pause, reassess, and set boundaries where needed.About Poly Pathways PodcastHosts: Kat and DocWebsite: polypathwayspodcast.transistor.fmYouTube: @polypathwayspodcastInstagram: @polypathwayspodcastTikTok: @polypathwayspodcastResources (affiliate links)• Magic AI – Virtual assistance service to help with daily life (Referral link in the show notes)• Annie Undone Enjoying Poly Pathways? Subscribe, leave a review, and share with your polycule! Your support helps us keep bringing you real, practical conversations about polyamory. 💜

In this lively episode of the Poly Pathways Podcast, Kat and Doc explore the fascinating world of polyamorous dating, offering real-life examples, practical tips, and plenty of good-humored banter. They dig into popular apps like OKCupid, Bumble, Tinder, Field, #Open, and PolyFinder to help you compare user bases, filtering options, and the pros and cons of each. Along the way, they share hilarious personal stories (shout-out to the old Yahoo Dating days!), emphasize the importance of being transparent about your polyam status, and remind everyone that effective communication—even on a digital platform—starts with an honest, well-crafted profile. You’ll also hear call-outs to unique resources such as the Tiny Decisions app for spontaneous date planning, and the occasional mention of “Drink Element,” a sponsor that keeps them energized between all their busy commitments.Next, the hosts dive headfirst into strategies for meeting potential partners beyond traditional apps, from spotting friendly faces at renfaires and gaming events to dropping in on local poly meetup groups. Kat shares her take on why having a broad social circle—full of people with mutual hobbies like Dungeons & Dragons or community volunteer work—can be just as effective for forming new connections. The conversation touches on tricky topics like avoiding “unicorn-hunting” pitfalls, handling awkward or negative responses on dating apps, and setting boundaries around family responsibilities. They also discuss the difference between boundaries and rules, highlighting how self-awareness and early communication can help foster healthier, more respectful relationships.Finally, Kat and Doc tackle the big seasonal dilemma: how to celebrate (or ignore) traditional romantic holidays like Valentine’s Day without losing sight of each partner’s feelings. From scheduling creative one-on-one outings on separate dates to planning bigger group events like trivia nights or escape rooms, they offer playful tips for including everyone—without forcing people into a single mold. Key questions this episode answers include which dating apps work best for poly folks, how to manage time and communication when juggling multiple relationships, and how to gracefully handle important dates on the calendar. No matter your approach, these show notes sum up the main takeaway: by staying honest, respectful, and mindful of everyone’s comfort zone, you can create positive experiences and meaningful connections in the world of polyamory.Hosts: Kat and DocWebsite: polypathwayspodcast.transistor.fmYouTube: @polypathwayspodcastInstagram: @polypathwayspodcastTikTok: @polypathwayspodcastResources we mention (affiliate links)OKCupidBumbleTinderFeeld#OpenPolyFindaTiny Decisions App (for spontaneous date planning) iOS | AndroidDakota Wright on TikTokDrinkLMNT (Get a free sample pack with your order)Key Questions this Episode Answers• Which dating apps work best for polyamorous folks?• How do I approach safety, boundaries, and partner communication when dating?• Where can I meet potential partners outside of apps?• How do I handle special holidays like Valentine’s Day with multiple partners?• When should I disclose personal and relationship details to new connections?